mjalti:

don’t allow ur insecurities to create ur reality. no one is “too good” for you. Nothing is “too far” and everything you imagined yourself doing as a child is within reach. that’s the secret difference between your adult self and your child self; your child self doesn’t allow insecurities to dictate their day. everything can happen for you if you work for it. anyone can be yours if you allow your true love to shine from your heart. The world is here for the experiencing.

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Anonymous asked: How to take part in self affirmations, self-talk, and self love In out moments of need without it feeling fake?

howtoskewl:

here’s a list of things i would recommend for anyone who needs help with finding self-love: 

1. set boundaries. what this means is act on what you need and not entirely on what you want. if you feel like you’re in a situation where you’re being held back by things creating a negative environment for you and you don’t know how to let go, ask yourself, “do i need this in my life?” if the answer is no, understand that it’s time to let go and take the measures necessary for that. 

2. stop comparing yourself. a lot of our insecurities derive from comparison to other people in situations vastly different from ours. know that everyone grew up differently, had different experiences, and live in different environments than you. you are not only a sum of your experiences, but also the drive that allows you to create new experiences. when i say this i mean, there can be two people that had the exact same terrible life, and while one of them decides to carry out the same routine that brought them to misery, the other decides to stand up and make a change in their life. so, although they both had the same experience, they are not an equal sum. 

3. tell yourself, “you did well.” this is something i personally find very calming and rewarding. during anxious situations, i try my best to avoid toxic habits and even if i fail, i realize it and tell myself i will do better next time. yes, you did well and you’re doing great. keep pushing. 

4. acknowledge that you have so so so many strengths. everybody is good at something. when you’re feeling low or insecure, you don’t have to tell yourself “fake affirmations” but rather dwell on all the amazing things about you. how you asked a question in class the other day, how you complimented that girl the other day and made her smile, how you showered even though you really didn’t feel like getting out of bed, how you got a really good mark on that test because you worked really hard. all these amazing achievements and qualities are so overlooked but that doesn’t cancel out the fact that they really mean something. 

guess what? people are so happy you exist. you’re so kind and you have made the days of many. you’re so significant in people’s lives. people think about you and smile. you’re doing amazing, sweetie, don’t give up <3 

autumnhobbit:

worst part of adulthood so far is definitely the fact that people have the ability to contact me and i have to respond in a timely manner

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clash-the-trash:

Time is the only thing of value that truly matters. How you spend your time every day, every moment, adds up to how you manifest your destiny. Your destiny manifests a life around you thats irreplaceable. Your life is unique. How do you wanna spend your time?

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cute-suggestions:

in 2019 we’re not gonna purposely make ourselves sad anymore!!! no more looking at that blog bc you know it’ll make you sad! no more clicking on a link to a song that brings back bad memories or a post that reminds you of bad times just to make yourself feel bad!! we’re gonna start to love ourselves in 2019 and strive to be happy bitch!!!!!

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